snow, flurries, nothing...
Ok, we finally got a lil bit of cold air among us here in NJ......My lil legs were FAAAA-reeezing! i think it more or less was that wind that catches you, waters the eyes and leaves the face feeling dry as L. Yep that was my cold body, along with about 20 little 2 and 4 year olds feeling the same the wind wanting to blow them to the east. Also around ten am, I look up, well children screaming made me look up, there was about 5 minutes of snow flurries, these kids went crazy! They had their hearts set on going outside and making snowmen. Not so much, the clouds cleared and the sun shined upon the windows and the snow I really think didnt have a chance making it to the ground. As much as I hate driving in the freezing rain, snow anything with wetness coming from the clouds in 35 degrees or colder, scares the holy hi-ness out of me, I miss snow.
Maybe seeing it from the window as a child, or walking home from Annie Tallent elementary, back when it was safe to let children walk home from school, but the thick snowflakes falling upon your gloves and tongue, where your not really soo cold all bundled up. A warm feeling knowing my dad is at home waiting for us with freshly baked, still warm off the cookie sheet chocolate chip cookies and the hot chocolate that was made on the stove. Sledding, I dont even see enough space here on the east coast for a hill to go sledding on, to build a snowman in the yard, yards are far and few between around here.......
Now on the flipside, I'm sure when the snow falls, if it does in fact snow over here on the Jersey streets, I will be swearing every word under my breathe bout hating the snow. *lol* one day I will get over my fear, that anxiety I have formed of driving on wet, snow covered, icy roads.
I have a co-worker who's mother is suffering from stomach cancer and today was told they attempted to perform surgery on her mother only to find cancer everywhere and were unable to perform the surgery! I got sick to my stomach. I stopped and prayed as we hung up the phone for her mother, her strength as a daughter and to think, she's merely 30 and soon to lose her 80 pound mother, who raised this friend of mine to be sweet, caring, respectful.
I couldnt help but think, I am sooooo greatful for my mother, I have this connection with my mother, a 3 year old mind set of this is MY MOTHER, not yours, she is my possession and lord only knows how much I would myself die up inside if i were to lose my mom anytime soon. My fear, my anxiety, another one.....I have about 3 things that lead me to suffer from anxiety...but the fear of knowing one day my mother will no longer be with me phsyically is number one! I know one shouldnt think like that, but in my mind i've played it over more than once, how will i hear it, who will be with me, where will I be the day my mother joins her mom and dad, her brother and only be with me in spirit. They are different every time, I try to imagine the worst, so when the day comes it might not actually be that hard, painful, or heartbeaking on me.
Again my friend, always your in my prayers, your mother, a prayer for the cure of cancer to be found sooon and your family! (I hate cancer, more than one can imagine...thats another day...another blog)
Maybe seeing it from the window as a child, or walking home from Annie Tallent elementary, back when it was safe to let children walk home from school, but the thick snowflakes falling upon your gloves and tongue, where your not really soo cold all bundled up. A warm feeling knowing my dad is at home waiting for us with freshly baked, still warm off the cookie sheet chocolate chip cookies and the hot chocolate that was made on the stove. Sledding, I dont even see enough space here on the east coast for a hill to go sledding on, to build a snowman in the yard, yards are far and few between around here.......
Now on the flipside, I'm sure when the snow falls, if it does in fact snow over here on the Jersey streets, I will be swearing every word under my breathe bout hating the snow. *lol* one day I will get over my fear, that anxiety I have formed of driving on wet, snow covered, icy roads.
I have a co-worker who's mother is suffering from stomach cancer and today was told they attempted to perform surgery on her mother only to find cancer everywhere and were unable to perform the surgery! I got sick to my stomach. I stopped and prayed as we hung up the phone for her mother, her strength as a daughter and to think, she's merely 30 and soon to lose her 80 pound mother, who raised this friend of mine to be sweet, caring, respectful.
I couldnt help but think, I am sooooo greatful for my mother, I have this connection with my mother, a 3 year old mind set of this is MY MOTHER, not yours, she is my possession and lord only knows how much I would myself die up inside if i were to lose my mom anytime soon. My fear, my anxiety, another one.....I have about 3 things that lead me to suffer from anxiety...but the fear of knowing one day my mother will no longer be with me phsyically is number one! I know one shouldnt think like that, but in my mind i've played it over more than once, how will i hear it, who will be with me, where will I be the day my mother joins her mom and dad, her brother and only be with me in spirit. They are different every time, I try to imagine the worst, so when the day comes it might not actually be that hard, painful, or heartbeaking on me.
Again my friend, always your in my prayers, your mother, a prayer for the cure of cancer to be found sooon and your family! (I hate cancer, more than one can imagine...thats another day...another blog)
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